Use a stage name on sites, boards, forums and in mails.
Do not give out your real name, address or phone number, to just anyone! You should also think seriously about how accurate a location you wish to give at all. If you live in a large city such as London or New York, then it is probably safe to make that public. But, if you live in a small town you may be at risk of being found. So just say which county or state you live in, that is accurate enough. Start off by choosing a stage name and sticking to it. Then get yourself an e-mail address, to fit in with your new modelling indentity. There are plenty of free e-mail providers, such as hotmail.com. If you do need to give your real name or other details, such as when registering your own domain name. Be aware of what will be made public, and if possible give your stage name and alternative information for those parts. Giving your real name and information only where it will be kept private.
Do not make the mistake many models do, of using a stage name
Do not make the mistake many models do, of using a stage name, but then using an e-mail address which is obviously made up from a real name. Do not make the mistake of registering your own domain name, and giving your real name, address and phone number on the registrant details, which can be seen by anyone as they are public information. Do not make the mistake of choosing a username on forums which is actually made up from your real name. Many times you see models that have made these mistakes, using a stage name such as Jade Banks, but using an e-mail address such as sarahbrown@whatever.com, totally defeating the purpose of using a stage name.
So you are ready to start taking offers?
How do you decide what are genuine offers? How do you decide who it would be safe to meet or shoot with? We will try and give you a practical, rough guide to filtering out the good from the bad. Take a look at the e-mail address of the person making you the offer. Are they using a free, anonymous e-mail? Such as hotmail or yahoo. Genuine people do use these free services, but who are they claiming to be? If it is some big shot who is going to make you a star, then why are they using a free mailing company? Surely they may even have their own domain name? Such as bigshotphotographer.com and therefore their mail should come from there. If they are claiming to be an agency, again why are they using free e-mail? Surely any real business will be mailing from an address belonging to their company domain name.
Even if the person does not have their own domain name
Even if the person does not have their own domain name, why are they not using the e-mail address that comes with their Internet access company? Such as aol.com. Again, yes genuine people do use free mailing companies, but then again so do the people you want to avoid! Why? Because it makes them more anonymous and harder to trace. Next look at the content of the mail. Can they spell? Does the mail look like it may have been written by a child? Have they put any effort in to the content? Or does it just say, I want to shoot you, how much? Have they offered any evidence of who they are? A web site link that shows some of their work? Perhaps the names of models they have worked with? Have they attached any samples of their work to the mail? If they put little effort in to contacting you, how much effort do they put in to their work? Or is it they are not genuine?
Even if they do show you sample work
Even if they do show you sample work, make sure those samples no matter if on web sites or attached to mails is the work of that person, and is not someone else's. There is nothing to stop some fake copying other peoples photographs and using them to set up a fake photographers profile. Yes, it has been done! Get references from 1 or 2 models the photographer has worked with. If getting references via e-mail, make sure that the mails are actually from the models and not just mailing addresses created for that purpose. If in any doubt ask the models if they will talk to you on the phone. Ask the models for web site links you can see them on, make sure e-mail's match and you are talking to the person you think you are. Getting references from other models a photographer has worked with is your most important safety measure.
Once you are happy that the offer is genuine
Once you are happy that the offer is genuine, is within your limitations and that either the price is right or the TFP deal is to your liking, then we suggest you talk to the photographer on the phone. You can get a much better feel for who someone is on the phone, what they are like, and also it will give you both a chance to discuss the shoot requirements in detail. Beware of anyone who is not willing to talk on the phone before any meeting or shoot. Beware of anybody and that goes for models too, who is not willing to give at least a mobile phone number after the e-mail checks have been done. If a photographer is not willing to give his mobile number after e-mail contact is complete, then why? Either he is not happy that the model is genuine or he has something to hide. If the model is not willing to give her mobile number after e-mail contact is complete, then she is either not happy that the photographer is genuine or she has something to hide. Such as she is unreliable and may not turn up to shoots! Remember just as the model has a right to check out a photographer and ask him to prove himself, a photographer has a right to expect the same from the model.
Let's assume you have done your e-mail checks and have talked on the phone
Let's assume you have done your e-mail checks and have talked on the phone, and everyone is happy. It is now time to arrange the shoot. Where will the shoot be? A studio? A hotel? Some other location? Phone the studio or hotel just to confirm that it exists and is actually booked. If working from a home studio make sure you have the address and phone number. For all shoots, tell at least one other person where you are going and what time you are expected back. If the photographer paying for your travel is part of the deal, consider asking them to buy the tickets and you simply collect them from the station or airport. But if you do, be sure you are not going to let them down! If accommodation is paid, contact the hotel and make sure it is booked and paid for, but again do not let them pay out and then let them down. If in any doubt about doing a shoot or making it to a shoot, do not allow the photographer to spend money he cannot get back.
If possible take a chaperone with you on your first shoot with a photographer
If possible take a chaperone with you on your first shoot with a photographer, especially if working at a home studio or hotel. But do not expect your chaperone to be able to watch or interfere with the shoot. Remember you are meant to be working, would you expect to have your boyfriend, mother or friend watch you while you did an office or shop job? Before a shoot is arranged it should be discussed if there will be a chaperone, who the chaperone will be and where the chaperone will be during the shoot. Also do not expect for your chaperones travel or time to be paid for! There may be genuine photographers who are not happy to do the shoot with your chosen chaperone present. We have heard of photographers refusing shoots because the chaperone was under 18, because the chaperone turned out to be a nuisance on a previous shoot, because the chaperone is a boyfriend who does not really want his girlfriend to model and even just because the model was not willing to say who her chaperone would be. Yes a model has a right to information before doing a shoot with someone. But the photographer also has a right to that information. Would a model not want to know if the photographer was also bringing someone else? Would the model not want to know who that person was and what they will be doing?
When you reach the shoot location, ring someone to let them know you have arrived safely and then again when leaving to go home. Maybe even half way through the shoot at an agreed time. Have secret words agreed, 1 to say everything is OK and another to say something is wrong. Plan how you will get to the shoot and plan how you will get back. Do not leave it to chance. If possible have a back up plan, such as having enough money to get home by taxi if the trains are not working. But make sure it is a licensed taxi, many women are assaulted or raped by unlicensed or bogus taxi drivers. Carry a credit card, so if the worst comes to the worst you can stay overnight in a hotel. It is best to have a back up plan.
If accepting a drink, of any kind. Make sure you know what it contains, and if you leave it unattended at anytime, do not drink it. So called date rape drugs are a real and dangerous problem. You will have no control over what is done to you and possibly even no memory of it, if you are given one of these drugs. It is also not a good idea to drink too much alcohol, again you may not be in control if you do. It might be a good idea to take a bottle of water with you to shoots, that way you keep hydrated and safe.